Introduction: Safe/Ward is getting to be rather a massive project, with a lot of posts, so if you're so inclined, please check out the other posts in the series: -I Never… View More

One of the things I keep hearing about abuse in the BDSM community is "oh, but that doesn't happen HERE". "I've never had something like that happen to me," some scoff, "so it must be something you're doing", or "I've never heard of that happening here". In each case, I have often had stories from people in those communities, unsure how to speak up or what to say locally, but feeling safe to discuss it with someone who will respect their… View More

Project Unbreakable is an amazing project on Tumblr I've just… View More

This was put up on my wall, described thus- "in view of recent chat about safe words and consent, thought you may find this interesting Kitty? (not work safe) Award winning 7 min film tackles consent, safe words, feminist ideas and… View More

I wanted to maybe encourage other people, Dominants particularly, to speak up for the Blog Carnival with a story of my own. It's a… View More

(trigger warning for discussion/personal stories of nonconsent/abuse/rape) While I've been working on… View More

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So this post will bring the second Safe/Ward blog carnival to a close- please check out… View More

So I haven't updated for a couple of weeks, in part because I've been really busy planning for upcoming… View More

So Clarisse Thorn suggested that I do this… View More